Recently, I became aware of a tragic divorce. A dear friend of mine had been in a pre-med undergraduate program in the University of Pennsylvania, one of the finest universities in the country, and was pursuing a career in medicine. This young man came from a home with very little means, but even though times were tough, his family helped support him as much as they could and even saw him graduate college.
In college, he met a young woman from a well-to-do family who was so inspired by his perseverance that she told him that she would do whatever it takes to see him become a doctor and is willing to support him financially through the process, as long as he marries her.
I don’t think that anyone in his position could resist such an offer. She was an attractive, young woman who was completely in love with him and was willing to do anything to see him succeed. They got married, and life was going just as planned for about three years.
Unfortunately, after three years of marriage, the woman’s father’s business plummeted and hit rock bottom. The father was no longer able to support his daughter and son-in-law. Her response was that her husband should immediately stop his studies and go earn a living to support the family.
With only two years of studies left, the husband refused to do so and told his wife that he could not leave his studies. He said that if she took upon herself to provide financial support until he finishes medical school, she should keep her promise and go earn the livelihood herself.
She was totally uninterested in bearing the financial strain of the family for two years and, therefore, sought a divorce. She requested total custody of their one child without visitation rights for the husband and demanded control of all assets.
My friend was absolutely devastated because she demonstrated that she was only interested in the relationship so long as it was comfortable for her. Moreover, she ended up causing him more damage than were he to have never gotten involved at all. Finally, what had he done to deserve to never be allowed to see his only child?
Thankfully, he got the courage to object to this madness, and he contacted a fantastic family court lawyer who took him by the hand throughout the entire case. He went for full custody and won, and today he lives with his parents and his daughter in their home. Hopefully, he will soon finish his studies and will begin practicing medicine in his new home with his child.
Brandon G. Carlyle is the divorce attorney who defended my friend in his family divorce case. For more information about this fantastic Oklahoma City divorce attorney who serves the Oklahoma City area, check out the Bumgarner and Goodwin website online. Brandon is an SEO consultant based with SEO services group ClickResponse.